“Let us not therefore judge one another anymore: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumbling block or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way” (Romans 14:13, KJV).
How about that one? Instead of judging others, the Bible says we should judge ourselves. We should ask ourselves if we are being a stumbling block to others. Am I conducting myself at work, at home, or among my friends in ways that are not conducive to impacting the lives of others for Christ?
Years ago, Christians coined the phrase lifestyle evangelism. As it implies, this term denotes living out your faith in such a way that unbelievers are positively influenced by the character of Christ they see in you. This very idea underscores the power of godliness. We need not wear a sign on our chest to tell the world that we follow Christ. Others should be able to observe us and over time at least conclude that we are mysteriously different from the world.
But a flip side exists to this point. Just as our lifestyle can be an asset to reaching others for Christ, it can be a stumbling block to others also. That’s why the Bible says we should judge ourselves in this regard.
We know how to be tough in judging others. But instead, we need to get tough about judging ourselves. The salvation of others may be at risk.
Somebody’s Watching You
Claiming to be a Christian among unbelievers tends to put us on the radar of others. We may not know who is watching us. But we can sure somebody is. The observer may be trying to figure out what is a Christian. Or what makes those who say they are Christians any different from the rest of us? Or is “Christian” simply a label people wear but everything else is the same?
We tend to be on our best behavior when we know others are watching us. That is especially true if we have revealed to them that we are a Christian, or if we know that others know that. But what about when no one is watching you, or you are not aware that someone is watching you? I submit that you should always conduct yourself as if someone is watching you. This is the best rule of conduct for positively affecting the lives of others.
Of course, it is God that we are called to please. But one way we please Him is by not being a stumbling block to others who would come to Him.
Amazing power exists in a godly lifestyle. A saved husband or wife can win his or her spouse to the Lord through the power of godliness. Parents can win their children that way and vice versa. Our sons and daughters can positively impact their friends that way.
On the other hand, if we fail to walk in obedience to the Lord, we may be the stumbling block that hinders their choice to accept Christ.
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